Marriage is defined as is a socially or ritually recognized union or legal contract between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between them, between them and their children, and between them and their in-laws. Traditionally, a marriage is thought to be between a man and a woman, but as times change, more and more people are beginning to fight for the rights of homosexuals, bisexuals, transgenders, and any others who don't fall into the category of "straight." However, there is a lot of backlash from people who don't support the movement. These people either feel that this nontraditional union ruins the sanctity of marriage, have conflicting religious views, or just view gay marriage as unnatural. Obviously, opponents of gay marriage are heterosexual and are unable to empathize with the LGBT+ community. In our own nation, 32 states have legalized gay marriage, which is huge step in the right direction!
Although many social liberals in the United States are frustrated that gay marriage is not totally legal yet, we are way ahead of the game in comparison to other nations around the world. As more and more states in America begin to legalize LGBT+ marriages, other nations are still punishing, and even killing, homosexuals solely because of their sexuality. For example, Putin and the Russian government have a law in review that would allow children of gay and lesbian couples to be taken away from them. Members of the LGBT+ community in Russian cities, such as Arkhangelsk and Ryazan, have had to live their lives around that national ban against "propaganda of nontraditional relations." Many have joined youth groups and advocacy groups, but they know they are still vulnerable. The citizens realize that they are the majority, and that many people are supporters of nontraditional marriage, however the government (even though its members have the minority opinion) is far more powerful than the citizens. While the local media in these two cities have shown homosexuals unexpected support, the government-controlled national media is persistently inhospitable toward the movement of equality. This may stem from the fact that Russia and the Western world have always been competing for the title of "global superpower," so Russian lawmakers want to be as different as possible from the United States.



One of the most frustrating arguments against gay marriage is that it ruins the sanctity of marriage due to a lack of religious meaning. In today's society, the religious affiliation that is "supposed" to go with marriage is lacking and rapidly diminishing. More and more couples are getting married outside of religious buildings. Marriage is becoming more of a social event, and with religion slowly being removed from the picture, there really is no argument. Furthermore, heterosexual spouses are just as likely to destroy the sanctity of marriage through cheating and divorce. In fact, gay couples are likely to be together longer before getting married, resulting in a lower divorce rate. From a religious standpoint, opponents argue that gay marriage takes away from the true purpose of marriage, which is to procreate. However, there are many heterosexual couples that end up putting their children up for adoption because they are unwilling or unable to take care of them. Through the legalization of gay marriage, more children will be able to have a stable home environment with loving parents rather than having to grow up in foster care with a constant change. Furthermore, the Bible promotes social change. In Matthew 5:7, “Neither do men pour new wine into old wineskins. If they do, the skins will burst, the wine will run out and the wineskins will be ruined. No, they pour new wine into new wineskins, and both are preserved.” This metaphor is basically saying that change is necessary for society to grow, and old societal norms can be detrimental to human development.